tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-63131738712133746622024-02-19T04:23:49.670-08:00Sonam's Diary sonamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18037025149223265121noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313173871213374662.post-47150027724599942972012-03-07T02:07:00.002-08:002012-03-07T02:07:44.005-08:00Changes that seem like mid life crisis<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<strong>“Who is singing this song? I am,” this line from a poem, has always intrigued me. The poet talks about human life, racism and of struggles a woman goes through in life- when the sun doesn’t feel warm enough, cold icy wind takes time to penetrate through your skin and when the brightest flowers seem colorless.</strong></div>
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<strong>Through some of the skin flaying experiences of my life so far, I have learnt a lesson; no matter how crowded you are with friend, at the end of the day you stand alone. Alone! For you to catch the bull by its horns, look him in the eye and say, “I will get through this.”</strong></div>
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<strong>Call it the “Mid-Life Crisis,” or by any other name but sometimes, having everything in the right place with the best job and best of friends around you, doesn’t suffice the heart dousing feeling inside you.</strong></div>
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<strong>A few days back, one of my friends and I helped a drunken guy, who had slept in his car with doors open in the middle of the night.</strong></div>
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<strong>At first we were not sure about checking on him. We sat there, arguing about whether we should help him or would it back fire and have us in trouble. Finally we decided to help him and made sure he was safe.</strong></div>
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<strong>Later looking back at the incident I realized that it was not about helping him but the doubt that crossed our minds.</strong></div>
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<strong>And not very long ago people would easily lend you a helping hand. Today if you don’t know the person, it a simple alarm for ‘stranger danger.’</strong></div>
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<strong>Everything is changing before your eyes and you can’t help but sail with it. Change is the word everyone is terrified with, whether it is for good or bad. Politicians are scared of changes that young might bring, parents are scared of changes that come along with their children’s age, lovers scared of a change in their relationships and so on.</strong></div>
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<strong>But we must accept life and carry on. In a comic book called Calvin and Hobbes by Bill Watterson, the protagonist shades light on, why we have just five years of childhood. The Five years is to practically do anything and then carry on with the misery of school and adult life in accordance with the society.</strong></div>
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<strong>Then, you call your life yours but you live it for others. You live it with the spell of impressing others, out doing things and pushing that extra mile. And by the time you realize this, you are on the death bed. The book of accounts on your life has most of its pages filled with chapters like my children, my partner, my family, my friends and my job.</strong></div>
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<strong>The “I” would be left as an alphabet you wouldn’t find.</strong></div>
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<strong>Sometimes people say I am too much of an “I” person. I agree to it because it in no way describes me as a selfish person. It is just another way of expression because at the end of the day when I bid farewell it’s just “I” and no one else.</strong></div>
</div>sonamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18037025149223265121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313173871213374662.post-44569591599266211072011-12-13T01:26:00.001-08:002011-12-13T01:26:55.434-08:00i am hiv positive, will you hug me?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Everyone applauded the courage the five HIV positive people showed by coming out in the public last week. Bhutanese in Facebook and other social networking sites also showed their solidarity and support by posting words of encouragement.</div>
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The World Aids Day on December 1 was a special moment. I for one had to cover the event and write stories of these brave souls. Yes, I was excited to see them because knowingly I have never met a HIV positive person.</div>
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So I set an interview with them and the entire day I was anxious, waiting for the clock to strike five. And finally there I was, sitting among the five of them.</div>
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At first everything was fine but as the interview went by, I was getting nervous. I am aware of how HIV/AIDS spread but I could not help but feel a little uncomfortable. In hindsight, it all had to do with my own set of preconceived notions of the disease.</div>
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Across the world, HIV/AIDs is a taboo. For a moment, it seemed I was part of this world and the ignorant people who has and continues to discriminate people living with HIV.</div>
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They were talking to me about discrimination and social stigma and I was doing that to them subconsciously. To even think that I felt that way now pricks my conscience to death.</div>
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After the interview got over as I walked out, a shadow of guilt hovered around me. I could not stop thinking about the way I felt and at a certain point might have behaved. It was all an innocent mistake to have thought about them in that way.</div>
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I am not a discriminating person but it is us and the society that have led to this social fear against the disease. It is not the person I feared but it was the disease.</div>
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After I interacted with them at a very personal level, I am now a more educated person. The experience opened my eyes. Now I know, they are like any one of us, battling a disease. I know there would be many out there who would react in the same way, perhaps at the first instant.</div>
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I hope one day the world would get over with the fear of HIV/AIDS and embrace people with HIV instead of disowning them. I hope everyone would understand that HIV/AIDS people deserve equal respect, care and love like any other. They are normal human beings like us, with or without a disease.</div>
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By coming out, they have shown that they are willing to sacrifice their own peace for a greater cause. Now it is our responsibility to accept them as part of our community.</div>
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A desktop wallpaper on a friend’s computer had a cartoon that read, “I am HIV+, will you hug me?” Without a second thought, I whispered, “Yes, I will!”</div>
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“Dinner is ready,” the mother shouts from the kitchen.</div>
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It is seven in the evening and dusk has turned to night. The eldest daughter is in the kitchen to help set the dinner on the floor.</div>
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An old school uniform kira on the soot-coloured floor is set as the dining table where food and tea is kept. The man of the house leaves the television remote, kids leave their books and granny comes holding her prayer beats.</div>
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The first serving is for the gods and for them to bless the family for the food they have provided. Then, the granny gets her serving followed by the father, kids then the mother serves for herself.</div>
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Every night the same ritual would be followed and conversations like the father complaining about his boss in the office and the children sharing incidents of school and granny lost in the midst of all gibberish enjoys her meal.</div>
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It is impossible for the family to have breakfast and lunch together in weekdays. Children had to get ready for school, father for the office and the only person left would be the mother and granny to share their meal.</div>
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The mother cleaning up after them would wait for the clock to strike five, so that the house would be once again filled with complaints and noise.</div>
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It just took as long as the Thimphu-Paro highway to get completed for the family to lose its togetherness and the importance of sharing a meal together. The kids grow faster than the rising constructions around them. They start earning. The father gets caught in trying to balance the family and business. The home maker and granny appreciates changes but when they are alone share about the joyful meals with the whole family together.</div>
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There used to be a time when the mother could pull her kids’ ears and gather them around the food. Now she is left powerless. She prepares the meal but there is no one at home even after five in the evening.</div>
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The father is busy going through the foreign direct investment guidelines or either busy on the phone trying to seal a deal.</div>
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On the other side the kids are too busy with friends’ birthday parties or office dinners.</div>
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But, who would notice it and even bother to talk about it because everyone wants to make more and more money. They want to catch up with the fast paced life.</div>
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The stove in the kitchen is left cold, untouched and there in no aroma of freshly prepared food. The granny is left on her own to feast on left overs or restaurant momos.</div>
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Oh! Who cares about the dinner that was once so special? Finally everyone in the family agrees to meet on auspicious days. The days to eat, pray and love.</div>
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The old uniform ‘dining table’ is still in a corner waiting for day when the family returns corner waiting for the day the family returns to the kitchen to savour a meal.</div>
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</div>sonamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18037025149223265121noreply@blogger.com0Thimphu, Bhutan27.4666667 89.641666727.4103117 89.5627027 27.5230217 89.7206307tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313173871213374662.post-45907037065857362272011-10-24T22:46:00.001-07:002011-11-03T06:45:49.889-07:00journey to a floating island<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, serif; font-size: 12px;"></span><br />
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By then I was, literally, quite unstable, only made worse by the feeling that I was standing on some kind of a floating island, surrounded by blue sea from every corner.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">Until that time, I thought travelling was one of my fortes, because I have done that, in worst of situations. I have climbed the rugged mountains through muddy trails, braving leech and lechers. For a delicate woman, such travail is a feat in itself.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">This time, the trip to Maldives was a five star luxury on offer. Nothing could have been better. But I think, the abrupt transition in mis-en-scene, from the high mountains to the blue seas, took its own time to sink in.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">Walking down the street, I was feeling wobbly, although nothing unusual for the people in Maldives. I feared I may fall down into the sea, and be engulfed its vastness. Yet amid the fear and frivolity, it was a quiet, often lonely, experience.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">I was between the vast blue sky and the sea, one above and the other just near my feet and before. Gentle breeze blew fresh sea air into the coast. I was totally awestruck by the beauty of Maldives.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">From the hotel room, one of the best in Male, I could see the sea waves rise and fall, rocking against the coast and seagulls fluttering above them. In the room, a huge comfy bed just for me. The sea food was delicious. Life is good, I told myself.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">The only downside was that it was quite a lonely trip. I could have used some company.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">After two days of rigorous meeting, I just had a few hours in my hands to go around. What amazed me is that Male is so small that you can tour the whole place in an hour. And up till now, I was thinking Thimphu is too small for a capital.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">Maldives is way liberal for a Muslim country, except for booze. Maldivians are outspoken and of course hospitable. To top it all, just everywhere, I saw couples, hand in hand. Dating and public display of affection wasn’t a taboo at all in this island country.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">Everything in Maldives is imported. Fish is found in abundance, although some have been complaining it is not enough for the locals as it is mostly consumed by the tourist, and the remaining exported. (Maldives receives around 90,000 tourists in a month).</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">The place is really expensive so much so it literally makes a tight fisted person out of you. Two packets of chips, a small bottle of juice and two chocolates cost me USD10; a quick calculation confirmed it is equivalent to Nu 500. With that kind of money it could easily buy a meal for two in Bhutan.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">But besides that, Maldives stole my heart away.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">Travelling so far away from home, alone, for the first time, and getting hoaxed at a transit airport, and stuck in rain and flood, Maldives was a pleasant breather. I won’t call it a disastrous trip but I had my own share of discomfort and pain, the humdrum part of travelling alone and getting lost.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">For me Male would be one of the places to see before you die. And also, who knows this beautiful island country may never exist after a few decades, if we give into the looming dangers of climate change. God forbid!</div><div class="ratingblock " style="font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 4px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 4px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><div class="ratingheader " style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></div><div class="ratingstars " style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><div class="ratepost gdsr-oxygen gdsr-size-24" id="article_rater_7925" style="display: block; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; position: relative; width: 240px;"><div class="starsbar gdsr-size-24" style="height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><div class="gdouter gdheight" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: initial; background-image: url(http://www.businessbhutan.bt/wp-content/plugins/gd-star-rating/stars/oxygen/stars24.png); background-origin: initial; background-position: 0px 0px; background-repeat: repeat no-repeat; height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; width: 240px;"></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>sonamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18037025149223265121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313173871213374662.post-2434915637148670422011-10-24T22:45:00.001-07:002011-10-24T22:45:32.044-07:00confessions of a wrecked plane<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, serif; font-size: 12px;"></span><br />
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</h1><div class="entry entry-content" style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;"><a href="http://www.businessbhutan.bt/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/DSC_0673-small.jpg" style="color: black; text-decoration: none;"><img alt="" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-7807" height="199" src="http://www.businessbhutan.bt/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/DSC_0673-small-300x199.jpg" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; display: inline; float: left; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;" title="DSC_0673 small" width="300" /></a>Hundreds of miles away from modernization and thousands of meters above sea level, I lie high and dry in one of the country’s highest valleys, Sakteng.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">They say, it all began over five decades ago when I landed here in the Rocky Mountains drifting away from my normal air traffic.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">We are three brothers, from the neighboring countries. At one point in time we were all pride to our nations diving deep into the blue carrying passengers or fighting for our nations. We were aircrafts till one day we got wrecked and became steel pieces that was of no use to anyone. Having lost our way we had in turns, landed here on the snow covered mountains of Sakteng.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">Then on, we have been immobile shelters to Yak Herders and commuters, with the cold chill hitting us throughout the year.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">Back in the villages of Sakteng we have become bed night tales for the younger generations and a subject of interest for visitors.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">They say there were about 13 passengers on the aircraft of which nobody survived the wreck. The dead bodies of seven passengers were identified and transported home while six dead bodies were left behind to be buried in the grounds of the Himalayas</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">I don’t know about the two other aircrafts, but older folks say it was in the late 1960s when the Highlanders first started tearing me apart The first recorded incidence was of a sunny morning when a group of Brokpas hollered around me and shredded me into pieces. Most of the parts that they were able to carry became decorative pieces in the kitchen gardens and in the back yards.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">At the beginning they didn’t know what to do with the wrecked aircrafts, but it was a matter of time before they realized how to use the parts of the aircrafts. Today, parts of me are used as window frames or wind chimes on the balcony. Other parts have been hung on the walls of drawing rooms that are normally the only modern utilities around.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">The only remains of the three of us are the skeletons. We lie abandoned on the empty grounds, just because they could not drag us to their homes.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">One of the habitats who has been around with the three of us is 70-year-old Aum Gem. Aum Gem was a teen ager when I first hit the grounds of Sakteng. She claims there were about three air crashes in Sakteng. When the first one happened the aircraft was abandoned for days because the highlanders then, didnt know what it was. By the time the last aircraft crashed, people rushed to the spot to gather around the parts and take home whatever they could.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">The brokpas, not having seen flying machines those days was not sure of it being a helicopter or a plane but they did know it came from the neighboring countries.</div><div style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.15em; line-height: 22px;">Even now, when a helicopter soars through the sky, people living with modern amenities gaze upon it with amusement, but for the brokpas, it has just become another metallic piece in the sky.</div><div class="ratingblock " style="font-size: 12px; margin-bottom: 4px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 4px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><div class="ratingheader " style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"></div><div class="ratingstars " style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><div class="ratepost gdsr-oxygen gdsr-size-24" id="article_rater_7803" style="display: block; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; position: relative; width: 240px;"><div class="starsbar gdsr-size-24" style="height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px;"><div class="gdouter gdheight" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: initial; background-image: url(http://www.businessbhutan.bt/wp-content/plugins/gd-star-rating/stars/oxygen/stars24.png); background-origin: initial; background-position: 0px 0px; background-repeat: repeat no-repeat; height: 24px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; text-align: left; width: 240px;"></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>sonamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18037025149223265121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313173871213374662.post-23437891351617700432011-07-21T10:08:00.000-07:002011-07-21T22:20:53.609-07:00The board that defined yesteryear kindergarten days<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><h1 class="entry-title"><br />
</h1><a href="http://www.businessbhutan.bt/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/slate.jpg"><img alt="" class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-6136" height="107" src="http://www.businessbhutan.bt/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/slate-150x107.jpg" title="slate" width="150" /></a>It will not be difficult for most Bhutanese to imagine attending kindergarten classes without a notebook or a pencil. Most of the middle aged and older Bhutanese have done exactly that, thanks to the small rectangular slate boards that used to fit comfortably in the traditional hand-woven Bhutanese bags hanging on one shoulder which served as school bags.<br />
Using the slate board, popularly known as slates, was, to say the least, adventurous for toddlers then.<br />
They used to write on the black slate with a white chalk, rub it off when it was full and write on it all over again. Excuse sanitary lessons, but spitting on the slate and cleaning it with the gho or kira cuff was more than normal.<br />
Unlike the notebooks, the children couldn’t afford to drop the precious slate because it would break and they would then invite the fury of both their teachers and parents. Thus, if a child wanted to get back at any of his classmates, breaking his slate was the first option. As a result, most of the fights among children would be because of the slate board or the precious slender white chalks that inked the board.<br />
Slates with wooden frames and white chalks were provided by schools and better endowed students used to show off by buying colourful chalks and carrying fancy bags.<br />
The advantage of slates over paper was that it could be wiped clean and used repeatedly.<br />
But it had more downslides to it. It was more than a challenge to remember what was written earlier. Once it was rubbed off, there was no turning back to the lessons learnt. It was a one way sport and there was no solution to it.<br />
Homeworks used to make it even worse and remembering what was taught in the class and writing it back was a nightmare.<br />
Children were encouraged to bring a damp cloth or sponge to clean the slate in the classroom but it would be stolen which ended up in fights.<br />
It was also a challenge for children to reach home and face their mother with a chalk-smothered gho or half the homework missing from the slates. If one dropped a slate on his way home, he was probably heading for a beating back home.<br />
If one broke his slate, getting another was difficult. Therefore, it was not uncommon to see children carrying broken slate boards. Something was better than nothing after all.<br />
The above experiences can only be inscribed in memoirs today. With notebooks, the experience of classroom learning has been transformed and much more coordinated.</div>sonamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18037025149223265121noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313173871213374662.post-1191971039133962992011-07-21T10:05:00.001-07:002011-07-21T22:22:40.554-07:00A SCOPE OF AN INSTRUMENT<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><a href="http://www.businessbhutan.bt/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/A-SCOPE-OF-AN-INSTRUMENT-I-AM.jpg"><img alt="" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-6596" height="78" src="http://www.businessbhutan.bt/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/A-SCOPE-OF-AN-INSTRUMENT-I-AM.jpg" title="A SCOPE OF AN INSTRUMENT I AM" width="320" /></a><br />
<b>Mind you, I have been around for a very long time. I am some 200 years old, French in origin. I came into existence out of man’s sheer quest for invention in science and technology. Although I was a crude stuff like a hearing trumpet, if Wikipedia is to be believed, over the years I have made an impressive evolution. If not in purpose at least in terms of sophistication. That’s my history in short.</b><br />
Hanging around a doctor’s neck, I have the pleasure and pain to witness varying experiences of suffering and agony. It is a pretty horrible job, no refuting that. But experience has been a good teacher. I have done this for ages, almost for two centuries now, and I have grown indifferent over time.<br />
Before I forget, my memory isn’t too good (age does catch up), let me introduce myself. I am Stethoscope, that instrument doctors plug into their ears to feel your heartbeat. So, there you go. I am an instrument designed to feel the inner workings of a human body. I tell you, I am just a medium as I can’t interpret or understand the meanings of the sounds.<br />
But at times, I feel, the heartbeats have an effect on me, going by the way I have started to feel different emotions. Moments of pain, suffering, and happiness. Happiness, at the time of birth of a new born. It is a miracle. Life.<br />
Yet again, dragged into the normal humdrum duties of every day, life can be so boring. It is a clash between long endless queues of patients and overworked doctors. No wonder, doctors get it wrong at times. Blame the faulty equipment. Poor fellows.<br />
I recall one of the incidents which I thought was not fair, not from a Stethoscope’s point of view. A few years back, I was hanging in around a doctor’s shoulders, while he talked to a seven year old girl. After running a few tests, the doctor admitted the sick girl at the hospital. Her veins were pierced by needle and connected to pipes that fed fluid to her fragile body. She was in lot of pain.<br />
After three months, she was discharged. It was only a mere infection. She did not have a hole in her heart. Wrong diagnosis. It happens. This is part of the medical history. How many would have died because doctors made a mistake during a critical operation?<br />
There are also times when doctors are at the receiving end for no fault of their own. One time, a rowdy group of men, seemed like relatives of a deceased, charged the doctors, even threatening vengeance and lawsuits. That was uncalled for. Surgeons do their best but often death is too powerful.<br />
Any ways, a little break from the morbid stuff of life, let me share you a secret. I am a feeler, I feel different parts of a human body! I am sure other instruments envy me. That’s the brighter side of the story. I connect to a body and in its internal workings. I feel the beat that keeps life going. That special sound without which there is no life.</div>sonamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18037025149223265121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313173871213374662.post-9426594157595210162011-03-24T23:24:00.000-07:002011-03-24T23:54:58.362-07:00Becoming Gemini<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEike9UEyW-3yzSwEY3wVL65jiJTfXQ3JA6ZYS7MMWw-mVGY840lssNsmITYOB7ogvDWtECYpHMduOK67E2XjQrkmZYLMTfca940JeQKrKFzpxn9LQ38w3TR6dC4dhekRwXvgmQDoMfaKmRQ/s1600/sonam.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEike9UEyW-3yzSwEY3wVL65jiJTfXQ3JA6ZYS7MMWw-mVGY840lssNsmITYOB7ogvDWtECYpHMduOK67E2XjQrkmZYLMTfca940JeQKrKFzpxn9LQ38w3TR6dC4dhekRwXvgmQDoMfaKmRQ/s1600/sonam.jpg" /></a></div><m:smallfrac m:val="off"> <m:dispdef> <m:lmargin m:val="0"> <m:rmargin m:val="0"> <m:defjc m:val="centerGroup"> <m:wrapindent m:val="1440"> <m:intlim m:val="subSup"> <m:narylim m:val="undOvr"> </m:narylim></m:intlim> </m:wrapindent> </m:defjc></m:rmargin></m:lmargin></m:dispdef></m:smallfrac><br />
<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">When you believe in something for so long that it crashes you when you find out that it was all a lie or it never existed. Well, this happened to me today. I don’t know if it is all true and I don’t want to believe in it but I somehow tend to. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">For the past 23 years I believed that I was a cancerian (Zodiac sign Cancer) and then just today found out that I am no longer one. I buy horoscope book religiously every year and read them almost every week thinking that I am a cancerian. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">I am so much into it that I see my traits in it and have adapted to the books on astrology so much that I adapt to whatever that has been written in the books. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Hypothetically, I was living my life based on the books and the traits that were in them. I was in high school when I read a horoscope book and found out that I was supposed to be sweet, love my family and hold them together. And be subtle and kind to everyone that i know of and be a nice human being over all. And also carry home on my back, which I think meant that I am a home loving family. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">But then it made me wonder sometimes if I was really of the traits that were mentioned in the books. Sometimes I would be not kind and hate other person but then again the thought of what was written in the books changed me. So there I was never the person that was in the books because some article in the internet tells me that now I am a Gemini. How can that be possible? And how can I turn from being nice to two faced person (a trait in Gemini)?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">My stomach crunched when I heard that from my editor and I am not willing to accept that. All my life just because I read the books I tried so hard to adapt to the traits of Cancerian and now what do I do with them? I am not going to read any other books on Gemini and adapt to those traits. Well, I know nobody is forcing me to do so but ME, will be forcing to do so sooner or later. See, that is the extending trust that I have on the sun, moon and the stars. They have been and me being a cancerian has been a part of my life through out. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Oh! I should have guessed that it was a lie coz me and my best friend are of the same zodiac sing yet totally different. She is more daring, go with the flow kind of girl and I am more of a in the box girl. Yes, I did always think about us being so different despite of the similar zodiac but people are suppose to be different, aren’t they?</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">But then again, when I think about me believing in being a cancer has helped me a lot. Cancer is one of the most sensitive zodiacs from 12 and I read this in a book, so subconsciously I might have been sensitive to peoples feeling and emotion more than I am would have been. I think it is a good thing. Me believing in being a cancer has brought good traits in me, at least. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Since the time I could remember, I wore a pearl ring which is a cancer stone and every full moon I could see my self in changing moods, because cancer is ruled by the moon and is effected more on full moon nights. Even my mom believes that me wearing a pearl ring controls my temper (I don't always lose my temper, occasionally). With the change in the moon, stars and the sun my stone is Jade, Aquamarine (I like the name) and Topaz. And I will be ruled by Mercury not the moon (but I love moon and it is romantic). You can't even see the planet MERCURY. It is like the moon has betrayed me and left me for Mercury to feast on, like I am some kind of meal. </span> </div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">Now that I am a Gemini, the thought of being one haunted me last night. For many it won’t matter but for me it means a lot. So then I am a Gemini according to the stars, then so be it. Hell! yea I am a Gemini because one of the traits of Cancerians are that they adapt to things easily. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">So here are some of the positive traits of a true GEMIN:</span><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;">I hope they are true now that I have lost my faith in the aliment of the planets. </span></div><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Verdana","sans-serif"; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 115%;"> </span></div>sonamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18037025149223265121noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313173871213374662.post-91706177013990523032010-12-24T04:43:00.000-08:002010-12-24T04:43:40.246-08:00Money matters! I know that now.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><br />
</span></div><div>When I was a little girl all I wanted when I grow up was a family of my own. I was not ambitious at all, I was not worried about money or house or anything. All I was looking forward to when I grow up was a nice life without all the thing mentioned above. </div></span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">But today, it's Christmas eve and everyone is planning to go out but I dont have any money. I am so broke that even if you squeeze my purse not a single dim will fall out of it. See that is my condition but not to offend my parents who fills up my pocket every month (they will kill me if they see this). </span></div><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEijLXlA7p9fRt7ldMdbdcqJrhSbW7NK15inMen1Wzcj_RMqmpwCtqxqD7GdzZiBRnOJFQ-h5aUv0dytb31DaXzS8KwfMEtkUbXl6u0iLkVX-BA7hsx-w1tFLIDKwehOos15TQDRVitNjtM8/s1600/money.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEijLXlA7p9fRt7ldMdbdcqJrhSbW7NK15inMen1Wzcj_RMqmpwCtqxqD7GdzZiBRnOJFQ-h5aUv0dytb31DaXzS8KwfMEtkUbXl6u0iLkVX-BA7hsx-w1tFLIDKwehOos15TQDRVitNjtM8/s400/money.jpg" width="400" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Then to my rescue, my younger brother who is still a student called me up to say that he was coming to stay with me. And I came to my usual sister form and asked him for money. Note* he is still a student. imagine how embarrassing that was for me. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Now I realise that I want MONEY, I want HOUSE and I am WANT to be SOMEONE. At this point it's hell to a family that I always wanted. At the age of 23, I do care about the money I have at the end of the month in my purse. I care if I dont have fuel in my ALTO which is Vxi for your information..he he he... and to buy cloths and accessories that I want. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">I am a normal girl, who is in her early 20's and wanting to be someone, some where. </span></div>sonamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18037025149223265121noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313173871213374662.post-44612868437626731222010-12-20T01:03:00.000-08:002010-12-23T03:43:11.265-08:00Drying Money in the $UN<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Angay Gyem is 83 and angay thinks she is still strong because she drinks Horlicks.. Which is true:)</td></tr>
</tbody></table>Yesterday angya (grandma) and I spend a wonderful time together doing the most messy thing in the world. We were cutting the meat and drying it in the sun (Bhutanese style).<br />
It has been long since we have spend time together, I went to college then shifted to Thimphu for job. We have been living in Paro for almost 25 years and all the while I was my angay's favorite granddaughter. There was time when I couldn't sleep without her and now I live in a 2bhk all alone. I use to wonder lying beside her, what if she is gone then who will i sleep with. This was the most feared thought I had.<br />
I went to a boarding school and my grandma went crying to the principal because she knew I could not sleep alone. She asked him to let me stay with her and she promised that she would make sure that I went to the school regularly.<br />
It has been five years since then and I almost forgot the incident. She is 83 now but still strong and willing to do all the chores by herself. Few days back mom had bought 100kg of beef to make shakam and she agreed to take up the task. Though she was the one who agreed to do it, I was the one who was at loss because she dragged me into it. I was outside the house cutting meat, helping her to dry them. It took us the entire day and I had gone there to spend my weekend as usual.<br />
We sat there and started to work on the meat. Angay was sitting right beside me and started to talk about all the old time we had together. She said, "I think now you should spend some more time with me, I feel lonely." The moment she said that, I was hurt, it made me feel like was the WORST granddaughter that one could have.<br />
Then something very hilarious happened, we were so busy with the meat and the talking that we did not notice a dog stealing the meat. My grandmom jumped out of her skin to chase the dog and said, "This is not meat, it's money."<br />
For her noting was funny in it but for me to see her say that was the most funniest and the cutest thing in the world. That instant I captured her in my mind. After that she asked me to go to a neighbors house to steal bamboo canes because we were running out of them to dry the meat. I was like no, I wont go there, it's stealing and she was, "It's not stealing, it borrowing." She had the most beautiful explanation for that, "The sun is still up so it is not considered stealing it's borrowing with out asking and anyways, we will keep them back."<br />
Both of use smelled of wet beef all over our bodies and had a good laugh after a very long time.sonamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18037025149223265121noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313173871213374662.post-61081302025342942852010-12-14T00:31:00.000-08:002010-12-22T05:09:28.501-08:00was Cinderella a liar? hummmm!I am reading a book named, "Cinderella was a liar" and I was so intrigued by it. This book is about how we, specially the women have built our hope around fairy tale and is alway looking for our knight to rescue us. I was once like that, I always believed that my prince charming is out there and I will meet him someday, in that hope I met with lots of men and failed to be with anyone. Looking back at it, I was looking for my prince charming in them, which was out of the question. But now, I tell people there is nothing such a prince charming but i know deep down that I still am waiting for one.<br />
<div>Flipping through the magazines and watching movies, I see lots of happy couples in the world but when I look around me then I find men and women cheating on each other and always fighting. This sometimes makes me wanna give up the hope of meeting my prince charming. </div><div>Then one day, a friend bought this book, "Cinderella was a liar" and she passed it on to me. At first, I was like, aite the author is one agitated and over the world kinds a person. Then as I turned the pages, she says, women always try and look for something that is not there and fail to see what they have it right infront of them. </div><div>We are so lost in looking for a perfect guy that we ignore the ones that are there for us. Then I look at the mirror in search of self inner reflection and to my surprise I found out that i am among those women. I dated so many wonderful men but failed to see my prince charming in them, I was blinded by the fairy tale of knights and white shining armor suite. </div><div>When you call Cinderella a liar, it not that she injected the hope of becoming a princess from a maid to meeting a prince and living happily even after. Its just that, not all the prince that we meet will be holding a glass slipper which is of your size. He might be holding a size 6 but your feet is like size 7. The whole idea behind is that whether you are willing to take the size 6 shoe and make it yours and accept that person with all the faults. In the movie, Cinderella it is just still the prince and the princesses get married after that it is the end. Nobody knows that happened to them. It is said that they live happily ever after but I did not see it and neither did you. It's like in the real world. You meet a couple, they seem just fine together, holding hand and nothing seems to be wrong but who know they are the most unhappy couple in the world. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_GfxSGd-qUhGJI4ega_cq0CKX-OuGUb1cx0id12ZYktfBwll854Eg27P7UzboYcOEi-jJLfUeFaOgu3HtrPK43kJQ823NR6H8F2FTtxOLdhKCE4oDsDHiFIaSf9hD-OepQkSSM8YDYHBW/s1600/cinderella4.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_GfxSGd-qUhGJI4ega_cq0CKX-OuGUb1cx0id12ZYktfBwll854Eg27P7UzboYcOEi-jJLfUeFaOgu3HtrPK43kJQ823NR6H8F2FTtxOLdhKCE4oDsDHiFIaSf9hD-OepQkSSM8YDYHBW/s320/cinderella4.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div>if Cinderella was a liar and we are no different then her. </div>sonamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18037025149223265121noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313173871213374662.post-23827594259941196982010-12-07T02:19:00.000-08:002010-12-07T02:24:37.061-08:00blogs and what i writeThis is the first time i will be writing something that will be read by everyone. Yes, i am journalist and i write articles but they are just facts and figures. What i write are not personal and it does not allow you to be personal with your work. I have tough time writing what i really fell because i am afraid that others will know it and they might know me well. Actually i am a free spirited person, dont normally care what others say or do and most of the time its my way or the high way. But when it come down to my writing, i get conscious and very nervous.<br />
I have been writing it down in my diary for several years now and have been making sure that no one reads it. i have this strong tendency of writing negative thoughts or about bad things that have happened to me in my diary. I share good thoughts with my friend but keep the bad to myself. May be that is one of the reasons why i burn them after i finish writing it.<br />
this is my first attempt on writing it online or in a place where people can read my thoughts or even know me better. I think i am a step ahead now from what i am and what i use to be. As i am writing this thought down, it is making me realise that to share is to let go. To have faith, confidence and to love yourself is the most important thing and if you dont love yourself then you dont deserve to be loved. I think i am letting go of the phobia to write online and let people read.<br />
I know a lot of people who express themselves through their facebook status and let the other person know what they are going through but that is not the case with me. i just write about what i have noticed and most of the time my status box is empty.<br />
This is just the baby step..sonamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18037025149223265121noreply@blogger.com2